03 May 2007

Walt Disney World discovers Quinceañera parties

Walt Disney World discovers Quinceañera parties
posted by ScottPowers on May 2, 2007 10:59:00 AM

Girls now can hold their Quinceañera parties at Walt Disney World, with specially-planned packages at prices that start at between $1,800 to $20,000, Disney announced this morning.

Disney event planners, who've had decades of experience packaging weddings, now are turning their princess resources --ranging from fairytale linens to Cinderella coach rides -- toward the traditional coming-of-age celebrations for 15-year-old Hispanic girls, their families and friends.

Disney launched the new program May 1 with a special party for 15 girls selected from throughout the United States and Puerto Rico. The ensuing party was taped and will be broadcast by "Show de Cristina" on the Univision Spanish language network on May 28.

Disney is offering the parties in venues ranging from ballrooms to intimate spaces in resort hotels to one-of-a-kind locations at the Disney's MGM Studios and Epcot theme parks.

Among packages:

§ A Reflection of You – A Quinceañera in the midst of the fireworks displays during "Illuminations: Reflections of Earth" at Epcot, starting at $1,800.

§ Dancing with a Star – A Quinceañera celebration dazzles at a designated Disney hotel or theme park with a multilingual DJ, a variety of menu options, with a starting price of $6,900.

§ Belle of the Ball –A Quinceañera ball for groups of 100 or more celebrants, starting at $20,000.

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02 May 2007

Prom Tips for Dads of Daughters


Prom Tips for Dads of Daughters


High school Proms can be filled with excitement, dread, fun, uncertainty—and all at the same time! For many fathers, Prom is a big signal of how quickly “my little girl” is growing up—and a reminder of the hazards facing her out in the big bad world.

Dads & Daughters offers these tips to help dads, their daughters and stepdaughters get the most out of Prom time.


1. It’s her Prom, not yours. Dad functions best when he’s a good coach who listens closely to where she’s at, rather than imposing his emotions or fears on the situation.

2. Does “Dad” mean “Detective?” Yes. It’s more than okay to meet her date ahead of time. Make it a low-pressure meeting, like encouraging her to invite her date over to do homework some night. Promise her you won’t act like a prosecuting attorney (and then keep that promise), but let her know you care about her friends because you care so much about her.

3. Keep your head when, all around you, others are losing their shoulder straps. Wearing “sexy” clothes (and dyeing hair) is normal adolescent behavior. It can be a daughter’s self-directed experiment in self-definition. Dad’s job is to let her know that he loves her for who she is, now and forever. Meanwhile, you are not a dork if you set a dress code, but be willing to compromise or (even better) develop a dress code together.

4.
Beauty is in the eye of her dad. Always remember how important your opinions are to your daughter or stepdaughter. A girl needs to know that her dad thinks she is beautiful inside and out. Tell her she glows by just being herself -- and that the dress, hairdo and flowers are no match for her true, inner beauty.

5.
Be in the know about the “Nos." No booze, no drugs, no hotel rooms, no riding without seatbelts. No exceptions. Then make sure she knows that, no matter where, when, or what the situation, you will come get her immediately if she finds herself in an uncomfortable or unsafe circumstance. And that there will be no lecture until at least the next day. Make a pact that you and she BOTH will let each other know where you are and who you’re with, all evening, no exceptions. Be sure she has access to a phone to reach you.

6.
Yes, Dad, Prom costs money. So set a budget early. Talk honestly with each other about the cost of tickets, a dress, flowers, parties, etc. Then work out a realistic plan for what you can afford together, letting her share some of the load.

7. Simple is the new black. Many kids and families (and, sadly, some schools) invest so much in Prom that it seems like a bigger deal than a wedding. While teens want to fit in, they also like to be different. So offer the “simple” approach to Prom as her way to be radically different. Skip the limo (drive her yourself), skip the Vera Wang (many a fine dress hangs in thrift and consignment shops), and skip the Royal Banquet (suggest the old-fashioned idea of post-Prom bowling or making a scene eating at the local diner in tuxes and gowns).

8. Save the first dance for Dad. Make sure she knows how to slow dance with class and style. Practice with her to some songs from your Prom days.

9. Lock in on lock-ins. If the school hosts a post-Prom overnight lock-in, make sure you know what will be happening there and get her commitment to observe all the rules (including the one about having fun). If you volunteer to chaperone, make the following deal with a fellow chaperone: “I promised my daughter that I wouldn’t hover around her and her date. So, if you keep a close eye on my kid, I’ll cover your flank by keeping a close eye on your kid.” Only let her attend a non-school post-Prom party if you know the host family very well, they have a substance-free policy, and they know there’s going to be a party!

10. C’mon over! Avoid the post-Prom party minefield by having your daughter and a handful of her friends (and even their dates!) over to your house for a relaxed, substance-free, and well-chaperoned get-together.

11. Breaking up doesn’t mean the party’s over. If she breaks up with her date before Prom, encourage her to go with one or more other friends, even if there isn’t any romantic interest. But most of all, respect how she’s feeling, hear her out, support her, and follow her lead.

12. We’ll leave the light on for you. Wait up until she gets home, and then enjoy the fruit of your trust in each other—the great stories she’ll tell about the Prom (but don’t take it personally if she wants to tell Mom more than you—she may well tell you later, if you stay open to her).


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23 April 2007

T-Mobile says I'm a trouble-maker...

Just had another incident of trying to contact T-Mobile via their web site with a question about my account.

Their response? "I show special instructions on your account that say that it would not be possible for us to correspond with us via email and you must call Customer Care or go to a store for all issues and I am sorry you were not aware of this before. to find a retail store location in your area:"

Translation, I've been marked as a trouble-maker apparently.